So in my family, it was not really acceptable to move in with a loved one before getting married. In no way am I encouraging you to tell your family to fuck off, and completely ruin that relationship. That is just not worth it!
I feel like there has been so much pressure for women to be seen as strong creatures who can do everything that a man can, who do not cry, who are their own bosses, etc. Although I love all of these ideas, I don't think it is a bad thing to feel a little emotional and vulnerable sometimes.